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Sally Baldwin's avatar

The workbench at 1001 Myrtle was a productive spot for your dad and mine to hone their skills. Those genes run right through to you. I love the story, the beautiful carving and connection it made with your dad although unsaid. May I add that I’m writing this while looking out on the bird feeder my dad made for me and my husband has repaired numerous times retaining its original look. Dad always used salvaged wood and metal for everything. A true Rueckert creed started on Nana’s workbench.

Hugs and yes the tears are flowing.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Aww..thanks cuz..the memory of Nana’s basement work bench, jars of screws and what not, shelves of preserves, and the coal chute next to the furnace. And then the attic! What finds! Thanks for reading. I loved your mom and dad so much.

Deborah Way's avatar

This sounds like my grandparents’ basement ❤️

rebecca kleister's avatar

even though I know the story, at the last words,

tears....

Eileen Vorbach Collins's avatar

The birdfeeder is beautiful. That the carved embellishments survived the elements all those years is amazing. What a treasure.

The Outside Observer's avatar

It is. Always next to me. Thank you for your comment.

Deborah Way's avatar

What that carving must have meant to Stephen’s dad 🥹

Noble Golde's avatar

That is tender and beautiful. I remember for Xmas one year he chose your drawing with a bird in it and I received the Duchamp broken glass drawing.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Duchamp. How curious!❤️Thank you, Noble.

Sharon Senkiew's avatar

Beautiful story. I absolutely love the sculptures since I’m a birdwatcher.

Jan Burns's avatar

Beautiful story and I love the comments between cousins below. So special to have those shared memories of earlier days and people long gone.

The Outside Observer's avatar

So curious memory is..thank you.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Past is so present😊

Anne Brunson's avatar

In addition to being a talented artist, you are a sensitive and gifted writer. Beautiful, touching reflections.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Anne, thank you…I don’t know what to say. You are too kind.❤️

Ginevra Blake's avatar

Fabulous piece reflecting love between Dad and son.

Ed Koenig's avatar

(Through my tears) Thank you for this beautiful story about father and son relationships.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Thank you🙏🏻

Martha's avatar

A beautiful story, close to my heart. My father and my brother loved birds, as do I. My brother died five years ago and I still think of him with every siting of a hawk or an eagle or even a sparrow. Love your old bird house and the love embodied there. Your sculpture is amazing.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Thank you for all. Dear to me, I lost my brother only a week ago while writing this. Thank you for telling me.

Ellen Hoover's avatar

❤️

Nancy Malcolm's avatar

What a tender and articulate story about your father. I'm so glad you were able to hear his loving words and that he had the courage to say them. My father comes back as a boitsterous BlueJay. Every day around 5:00 p.m. (Happy Hour), he appears, eating at the feeder and getting a long, cool drink of water from the bird bath. Occasionally, he sits on the deck and just looks in the window, then flies away. Thank you for sharing.

Deborah Way's avatar

I’m so glad he visits you!

The Outside Observer's avatar

Sweet! Thank you for your kind words😊

Coyote Susan's avatar

I share these two insights:

”…far from the life he’d dreamed of,” and that dad never seemed quite content.

I love the sculpture.

Elaine Gantz Wright's avatar

Very moving. I can related to that unquenchable, unconscious yearning to please your father but not knowing how -- or how you'd know. 💜

The Outside Observer's avatar

So true. Thank you

Sharon Senkiew's avatar

Same here❤️

M. Tonita Austin's avatar

My dad shows up as a bluebird when I miss him the most. I love this story. It's just as beautiful as the visual tribute you created for him.

Deborah Way's avatar

What a special bird he chose 💙

Judy Sandler's avatar

Beautifully written story, Stephen. I love the photograph in the end of the sculpture of bird houses. I would expect your father comes to you as a bird, too. Thanks for sharing this one.

The Outside Observer's avatar

Thank you! I think he’s has. Outside my door this morning…https://photos.app.goo.gl/yBfToooBooyYqATGA