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This is lovely. I often think of this quotation from the poet Stevie Smith: "People think because I never married, I know nothing about the emotions. When I am dead you must put them right. I loved my aunt."

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Oh, how I love that! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Oh wow, that's just... right. Thank you for sharing it!

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Beautiful descriptions of simple things. Thank you!

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Thank you so much for reading and commenting!

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Oh my goodness!

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This is wonderful Bix. So much love and delight in a few words. I can see you and Anch talking and laughing, reveling in each other’s company. ♥️♥️

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Ah! Thank you so much for reading, Sally, and for these words. xox

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That optical case is enthralling, as is Anch. What a beautiful and tender portrait. I love that she was a professor of philosophy, yet still laughed all the time. And that she “had a clairvoyance she did not discuss.” Magic, indeed! Thank you for sharing.

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Thank you so much for reading, and for this lovely comment.

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What a beautiful story. I see Anch so clearly in her starched cotton sari, broad smile and eyes lit up with laughter. Thank you for introducing her to me.

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Thank you so much for "meeting" Anch, and seeing her so clearly!

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Aww, the love of an aunt .. what a sweet tribute. As the aunt to eight, I only can hope that I will inspire this kind of love.... thank you for writing and sharing.

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Thanks, Aunt Polly! I feel the same way about being an aunt (to 7)!

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Anch's magic comes through in this photo, I can't help but smile myself as I look at it. As someone who left a continent early in life, I understand this piece, but also grateful I was able to get back in time to say goodbyes. Lovely.

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Thank you, Nina, and I'm glad for you, that you were able to get back and say goodbyes!

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